How does a woman act when she’s cheating?
If I didn’t know any better, I would have said that the question above is a very complicated one.
The truth is that women are way smarter than men, and I’m not saying it because I’m a woman.
It’s a fact that has been proven repeatedly over time.
When it comes to cheating, women rarely slip up while at it.
And most times when a woman does, it’s intentional on her part because she wants her main man to find out.
But hey!
I’m not about to turn this particular blog post into a gender war on cheating and related topics.
Lol.
On the contrary, I aim to demystify the topic of women cheating to other people, just as I’ve done for myself.
You see, when a woman is cheating, it’s not as complicated as you think or make it to be.
I’m sure you’ll also see the light when you read this post to the end.
Today, we’ll be answering the question, ‘How does a woman act when she’s cheating?’
Without wasting any more time, let’s get down to business.
How Does A Woman Act When She’s Cheating?
Finding out whether or not a woman is cheating isn’t rocket science.
It’s actually simpler than you think, and I’ll be sharing the tips with you right here and now.
So, listed and explained below are some of the characters that a woman exhibits when she’s cheating.
Here they are:
1. Suddenly becomes too busy
When a woman suddenly becomes too busy even for her man, it’s a sign that she might be cheating on him.
In some instances, life gets in the way, and she has to step up to her responsibilities, bury herself more in work to meet up and still be considered relevant and competent on the job or business.
Of course, it’s expected that she’ll relate the new state of things to her loved ones so that everyone will adjust accordingly and not be taken by surprise by her new schedule.
But in a situation where such lady didn’t communicate any such new development with her lover, it won’t be out of place for him to raise an eyebrow at such sudden changes in her routine.
In addition to not spending quality time with him anymore, she’ll also cut down on communication and hanging out with him.
If she doesn’t have a good explanation about her new schedule, or doesn’t give him a heads up before it starts happening, he’s well within his right to suspect that she’s cheating on him.
2. You’ll notice a drift
When people share their concerns and fears in their relationship or marriage with me, there’s a question I always ask them.
And that question is, ‘What’s your intuition telling you?’
One thing I’ll always hold in high esteem is the power of intuition.
One’s instinct or intuition is almost always right.
Based on this fact, I’ll always recommend that you follow what your heart is telling you, devoid of emotions.
So, a man who’s in touch with his intuition will notice a change in his woman when he suspects that she’s seeing someone else.
Even if she still spends time with you, you’ll notice that she’s not so into you as before.
Her mind might drift away in the middle of a conversation.
She might be constantly typing on, checking, or looking at her phone as if she’s expecting a call or text.
All of those are evidences of her not paying complete attention to her man any longer.
3. She changes her phone password
A simple answer to the question – ‘how does a woman act when she’s cheating?’ is that she changes her phone password.
Either that or she puts a password on her phone, if her phone has always been unlocked.
But that’s not even the catch.
The ultimate indication of her betrayal lies in the reply she gives when her man questions the new development.
Someone who has nothing to hide will either explain the reason for the change, or give the new password to their partner.
However, alarm bells go off in a man’s head when his woman defends her putting a password on her phone and refuses to share the password with him.
She might ask him to respect her privacy and what not.
I mean, she’s comfortable with sharing her private parts with him.
Can a phone be more private than those?
She’s definitely hiding something, and it may be proof of her affair with another man.
4. No longer accountable
One of the things that sustain a healthy, working relationship is accountability.
Partners are accountable to each other, and that simple action helps to build honesty, transparency, trust, and also strengthens the bond in the relationship.
When a woman is no longer accountable to her man, it can mean that she’s cheating on him.
She might begin to disappear on him at intervals or go incommunicado without a good explanation of where she has been when she becomes available again.
In her opinion, it’s her life.
She’s a grown woman who can make her own decisions and doesn’t need anyone to police her.
5. Avoids intimacy
If a woman constantly avoids intimacy with her man without any good reason, I think it might answer the question – ‘how does a woman act when she’s cheating?’
I’m not talking about just the absence of sex.
As her man, check how she reacts when you initiate acts of intimacy with her.
For instance, you lean in for a kiss, and she pulls back when you know too well that you have fresh breath.
It can also be her shrugging your hands off her body when you want to massage her neck, shoulders, back, or legs.
She might also wriggle out of your hug as soon as your body encloses hers.
This is in opposition to before when she leans into you and enjoys the hug for as long as possible.
These are little acts of intimacy that strengthen the bond between a couple.
If she constantly avoids engaging in them with her man, there might be fire on the mountain.
6. Tension in the bedroom
One of the things that raises suspicion in a relationship is the presence of palpable tension in the bedroom.
A distant relative once reached out to me and spoke about his fear of his wife having an affair.
When I asked him to explain further, he said that she suddenly started suggesting and wanting to try out new things and styles that they’ve never talked about as a couple in the bedroom.
Before then, their sexual activities reduced to the barest minimum, courtesy of her.
According to him, she was always complaining of tiredness, and avoided anything that’ll lead to sex between both of them.
He felt that she either considered him boring in bed, or found his touches repulsive.
During our chat, he made it known that he didn’t want me to reach out to her on his behalf.
All he needed was someone who thought that he wasn’t paranoid or overthinking things.
The bottom line of his narration was that his wife was getting some from another man, and doesn’t care if her husband stopped touching her sexually.
7. Arranging hangouts for her man
In my opinion, there’s nothing wrong with arranging hangouts for a partner, especially if they’re introverts, or are swamped with work and can’t seem to get a breather for themselves.
You know, it’s cute when your woman occasionally calls your friends to know their plans and see if they can hang out with you.
It becomes a problem when it seems like there’s an ulterior motive behind the gesture.
This is especially true if the question, ‘how does a woman act when she’s cheating?’ has been on your mind for some time.
If she’s truly cheating, arranging hangouts for you can be her way of getting you out of her hair and perhaps giving her the opportunity to go see the other guy.
It’s time for you to put on your investigation hat and get to work.
