Are there intimate gestures men secretly love?
The above question is very valid, and is worth answering.
I’ll tell you why.
Men are natural providers, and have become so used to giving that they feel like it’s out of place for them to take.
For the longest time, women have become used to receiving gifts and being recipients of acts of love from men.
However, what’s good for the goose is also good for the gander.
The fact that men are used to being the givers doesn’t mean they don’t yearn to be on the receiving end from time to time.
They might not say it, but they also love to receive gifts, and be pampered and taken care of.
Women need to show up, act caring, thoughtful, and lovingly towards the men in their lives.
Do you know the beautiful part?
It doesn’t take a lot to pull off intimate gestures for men.
A little goes a long way, and these men will not forget it in a lifetime.
If you’ve read up to this point, it’s an indication that this topic interests you, and you’ll want to know these intimate gestures men secretly love.
Let’s get right to the crux of the matter.
9 Intimate Gestures Men Secretly Love
1. Gift him nice fashion accessories
One of the intimate gestures men secretly love is getting them nice fashion accessories.
Gift your man things that make him look and feel more handsome than he already is.
For instance, buy him pairs of sunglasses, belts, cufflinks, or jewellery sets.
You can also get him some blazers, shoes, shirts, and trousers.
He’ll look forward to rocking them with pride, knowing that his woman got them for him.
2. Write him cute heart melting notes
Part of the intimate gestures men secretly love is their women writing cute love notes and pasting them at vantage positions where they’ll always see them.
Perhaps a woman can write about ten reasons why she loves her man.
A man who’s at the receiving end sees the love notes are a reassurance of her love, care, and affection for him.
When he comes across where it’s pasted, he’ll smile and be reminded that he’s greatly loved, cherished, and appreciated.
3. Create a cozy spot for him in the house
Creating a cozy spot or corner for your man in the house is a thoughtful thing to do.
It’s one of the intimate gestures men secretly love.
Using blankets and lots of throw pillows, set up a comfortable corner for him in a part of the house.
Add some of his favourite snacks, hot drink to warm him, and some TV shows that he loves.
Having a comfortable corner in the house is a good way to unwind, relax, and have some alone time in the house.
Your man will appreciate it if you can create that space for him.
4. Partake in doing his favourite things with him
Another way to surprise a man pleasantly is by engaging in his favorite activities with him.
Show up in a full workout gear and follow him to his regular workout session.
You can also step it up by clearing out your schedule or using your free day to plan around spending the whole day with him.
Then, make a timetable containing some or all his hobbies, and plan to try them out for the whole day.
For instance, I mentioned following him to his regular workout session earlier.
Let’s say that he enjoys working out, playing squash, eating good food, reading, and seeing animals.
Here’s how your typical day’s plans should be:
After some hours of working out, follow him to his squash game and cheer him up while he plays.
Then, go home and freshen up, and head to a nice restaurant that has good food on the menu.
From there, stop by at a bookshop to get him some books before you head to the zoo to see animals.
Imagine the experience!
I bet you, he’ll wish that the day never ends, especially if you’re not used to doing his favorite things with him.
It’ll be hard for him to forget a gesture that’s packed with so much love and thoughtfulness.
5. Send him romantic messages randomly
Who said that romantic messages are sent only on special dates and occasions?
No one?
I thought so too.
Romantic messages do not need any occasion to be sent.
It simply means that they can be sent randomly.
Imagine him having a hard day and your random romantic message pops into his phone.
Picture his wide smile and slight blush.
So, armed with this knowledge, cultivate the habit of sending random romantic messages to your man.
Heartwarming, right?
I’m sure he will grin from ear to ear for the rest of the day.
6. Serve him breakfast in bed
Never have I ever seen anyone who said no to waking up to being spoiled silly in the morning.
One of the great ways to start someone’s day is by waking them up with breakfast in bed.
I think that a good man deserves that experience.
Prepare his favorite breakfast while he’s still fast asleep and let the aroma drift into his nostrils.
In addition to being a pleasant surprise, it’s a loving way to start his day.
7. Plan a romantic date or picnic
You’ve enjoyed taking the backseat and being treated to romantic dates for so long.
Now is the time to return the favor.
Make plans for a romantic date or picnic for just the two of you.
If you’re going for a picnic, choose a private park.
Go along with blankets, some food, drinks, games to keep you busy, and of course, some of his favourite snacks.
Then, choose a nice restaurant with good reviews, if you’ve never been there before.
Perhaps, he’s been wanting to go there but hasn’t found the time to.
Seize this opportunity to give him the experience.
You can equally go to one of your regular restaurants and enjoy a quiet and romantic candlelit dinner.
It’s the intentions that matter.
Believe me, he appreciates and loves the gesture.
8. Hide love notes where he’ll find them
I know that we’ve talked about writing him cute love notes.
But have you thought about writing and hiding love notes for him to find randomly?
For instance, slip handwritten love notes under his pillow, in his pockets, or inside the bedside drawer on his side of the bed.
You can equally profess your love on sticky notes and stick them on the inside of his laptop or on his lunchbox.
It’ll add a ray of sunshine, love, and happiness to his day whenever he discovers any of such notes.
9. Arrange a staycation for both of you
You don’t have to spend a fortune if you want both of you to get away from the noise of the world very shortly.
Paying for good hotels, transportation, packing luggage, and worrying about what to eat during your vacation can be draining.
But you can avoid all of that if you can arrange a staycation for both of you instead.
I mean, turning your home into a vacation spot for the period you want to isolate yourselves.
Dim the lights, and pull the curtains.
Light scented candles and play soft music to set the romantic mood.
If you choose to not cook at home, you can order takeout.
You’ll both feel like you’re on a trip even though you went nowhere.
